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Relationship chemistry (Part 1)
Relationship chemistry (Part 1)

Let’s explore some of the ways to keep the good chemistry alive without blowing each other up!

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerOctober 1, 2019
Suffering is optional
Suffering is optional

Pain is inevitable. It is part of being human. Often, however, we add to our pain and develop the land of suffering.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerSeptember 25, 2019
Pain is a map
Pain is a map

Decide to face your journey with courage and resolve the sources of pain in your heart.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerSeptember 18, 2019
Taking time to simply notice
Taking time to simply notice

When we take the closeness of relationships for granted.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerSeptember 10, 2019
I don't care
I don't care

When caring ends up leading to anxiety and worry.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerSeptember 3, 2019
It’s none of your business
It’s none of your business

When you are weary and stressed, your relationships are usually the first to take the hit.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerAugust 28, 2019
Four apology myths
Four apology myths

Apologizing doesn’t mean that you’re wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your opinion.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerAugust 21, 2019
Layers of an Apology: Series Intro
Layers of an Apology: Series Intro

Becoming an genius-expert at truly apologizing is a life-long journey, but it’s worth every second of investment.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerAugust 13, 2019
Managing you reactions
Managing you reactions

Our emotional distress can arise from our expectations of others. They can be spoken or unspoken. Either way, there is an expectation that is not being met leading to a disappointment.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerAugust 6, 2019
The newness of love
The newness of love

If God truly loves making something out of nothing, then maybe, He can take your failures and give you something so wonderful and new that it will exceed your wildest and richest dreams.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJuly 30, 2019
When emotions are in the driver’s seat
When emotions are in the driver’s seat

Imagine how empowering it would feel to choose your emotions? Most people presume they are slaves to their circumstances and feelings.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJuly 23, 2019
Why your feelings matter
Why your feelings matter

We have all experienced the immediate feelings that flood our souls when a relationship disappointment takes place. And they are not fun.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJuly 15, 2019
Change the trajectory of your disappointment
Change the trajectory of your disappointment

What’s the first thing you should do when someone has overlooked you and not considered your feelings?

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJuly 9, 2019
Navigating disappointment
Navigating disappointment

Dreams, hopes, and anticipation can quickly turn into expectations, and expectations can turn into our greatest disappointments.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJuly 2, 2019
How to have difficult conversations
How to have difficult conversations

It may be about disappointments, differences, disagreements, or a host of other possibilities, but confrontation is critical – and inevitable.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJune 26, 2019
The comfort of being covered
The comfort of being covered

You have to stop asking yourself “why” and begin asking “what now”.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerJune 18, 2019
Recovery from infidelity
Recovery from infidelity

Will I ever feel normal again?

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerMay 28, 2019
The Results of Desperation
The Results of Desperation

Most couples have never mastered a sure way to navigate disappointment and offenses, which leads to hiding, pretending and even keeping secrets.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerMay 20, 2019
How to find hope when feeling desperate
How to find hope when feeling desperate

You know you’re stuck, but how can you reach the bottom, without hitting bottom? Can you recognize your desperation and make a decision soon enough to escape collateral damage?

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerMay 20, 2019
New Podcast!
New Podcast!

We invite you into our home, into our hearts, and into our experience.

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Bob & Audrey MeisnerApril 29, 2019
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183 (pt. 3) The Story We’re Writing Together
Oct 13, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
183 (pt. 3) The Story We’re Writing Together
Oct 13, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

Writing a shared story isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention. It’s about being proactive in how you relate to your partner, family, or loved ones. It’s about building a narrative based on trust, growth, and mutual support.

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Oct 13, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
182 (pt. 2) The Story I’m telling Myself About You
Oct 1, 2024
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182 (pt. 2) The Story I’m telling Myself About You
Oct 1, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

A simple way to stop these negative stories is by using the phrase, “I believe you love me but this is the story I’m telling myself.” This opens the door for your loved one to understand where you're coming from, without it turning into a fight. It lets them explain what’s really going on, instead of you reacting to a false story. When we let go of our assumptions and believe in the love that’s already there, we make room for healthier, happier relationships.

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Oct 1, 2024
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181 / The Story I’m Telling Myself About You
Sep 14, 2024
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181 / The Story I’m Telling Myself About You
Sep 14, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

If you notice that you’re starting to make up stories in your head about someone you love, try using this phrase to check in with yourself first and then with them. Instead of jumping to conclusions, take a moment to reflect on what you’re feeling. Share it with them using, “This is the story I’m telling myself about you right now,” and see how it opens the door to an honest conversation. When we stop assuming and start asking for clarity, we build trust and get closer to the people we care about.

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Sep 14, 2024
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180 / The Relationship Dream
Aug 18, 2024
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180 / The Relationship Dream
Aug 18, 2024
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Sensitivity is a beautiful and necessary component of a strong relationship, but it must be paired with security to truly flourish. Without security, sensitivity can trigger insecurities and lead to destructive patterns. Therefore, building a secure foundation of trust and self-assurance is essential for any relationship to thrive.

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Aug 18, 2024
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179 / Getting back the Spark and Sparkle
Aug 9, 2024
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179 / Getting back the Spark and Sparkle
Aug 9, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

Just as there are physical laws like gravity, there are laws for relationships. These principles are simple yet profound. By consistently applying them, you can predictably strengthen your marriage and create lasting love. It’s not about a to-do list; it’s about creating a heart-centered connection that endures.

Your relationship deserves the time and effort to make it thrive. With the right focus, you can bring back the spark and sparkle, making your relationship as fulfilling and joyful as it was in the beginning. We’re here to help you on that journey, sharing from our own experiences and the unique dynamics that have kept our love strong for over four decades.

Here’s to rekindling the love, one intentional step at a time.

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Aug 9, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
177 (pt. 2) Nine Gifts for a Loving Relationship
Mar 11, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
177 (pt. 2) Nine Gifts for a Loving Relationship
Mar 11, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

In the intricate dance of relationships, we carry invaluable treasures that enrich the bonds we share with others. These gifts, when cultivated and shared, have the power to transform not only our connections but also our own lives. Exploring these gifts, we want to bring our personal life examples and some new ways of looking at some of the foundational gifts in every relationship.

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Mar 11, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
176 / Nine Gifts for a Loving Relationship (pt. 1)
Feb 25, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
176 / Nine Gifts for a Loving Relationship (pt. 1)
Feb 25, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

God has given us gifts to enrich our lives and the lives of those around us. It is through giving and receiving gifts that we can experience security, comfort, ease, and enjoyment in our relationships. In this series, you will learn how reframing our relationships and perspectives can lead to a profound shift in how we experience life. Foundational to our growth steps is to recognize and experience that our joy comes from the life of God within, and not from external sources, we can find happiness and contentment in every moment. With intention and regaining our power of choice, we can reframe our thinking, we can develop and grow in our journey towards a life of promise full of abundance.

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Feb 25, 2024
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175 / When I feel like I’m failing…
Jan 28, 2024
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175 / When I feel like I’m failing…
Jan 28, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

When we feel judged, we tend to quickly judge that person back. When we react out of a broken heart, we will continue to project judgments on the people around us to feel better about ourselves. This is what keeps us stuck. You can learn to change your mind… and your relationships will change. Instead of a fixed mindset (This will never change!) we encourage you to develop a growth mindset! (I can adjust!). Problems feel huge at the moment, but when your mindset adjusts, your choice is engaged, and the “problem” loses its “hugeness” and power.

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Jan 28, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
Your Bucket List: And the Goals to Get There!
Jan 4, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
Your Bucket List: And the Goals to Get There!
Jan 4, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner

Setting goals and creating bucket lists is a powerful way to transform your life. It helps you define your aspirations, align with your values, and strengthen your relationships. By turning your dreams into tangible goals and taking consistent action, you can create a life that is meaningful, fulfilling, and filled with incredible experiences.

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Jan 4, 2024
Bob & Audrey Meisner
Bridging the Gap
Dec 31, 2023
Bob & Audrey Meisner
Bridging the Gap
Dec 31, 2023
Bob & Audrey Meisner

This episode will bring you massive amounts of encouragement as we ask important questions about this past year. Having clarity and reflection on your past year could be the very thing that will propel your life forward. Much of life starts with your mindset, and your approach to your life and your day. What influences your life the most is your state of mind in each moment. You are telling yourself a story and adding meaning to each life situation and experience. Your new choices will result in creating a new life. The best thing you can do for your relationships is to learn to change your mind. A growth mindset is a must for great relationships. Let’s prepare for 2024 to be the best year we have ever had! We love doing life with you!

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Dec 31, 2023
Bob & Audrey Meisner
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